Enemies ~~~~are they really friends in disguise?
I have been reading a book about the teachings of Buddhism. The author pointed out that when we continually speak ill of others aloud, and the people are not there to hear the comments, the only person absorbing the negativity and anger is OURSELVES. Wow! What a profound statement that makes so much sense. I believe that my father was right when he taught me to "hold my friends at arm's length, but my enemies closer." He added, "always forgive your enemies, nothing annoys them as much." I can see that in order to find the good in others, we must first look for the good within ourselves. It is usually the differences that can pull us closer together.
I look at you,. You look at me.
Differences -- plain to see;
However, large.
However, small.
We build bridges.
We build walls.
I tend to see you
clearer when
I picture you
as my friend:
a hand extended;
hope embraced;
surrounded by
a smiling face.
No doubt, I'll cross
your path some day.
Exchange a hug:
a warm embrace.
When on that day
will you then
see a foe
or see a
FRIEND
?
Opposites
© 2008 August 03
Teri LaFaye
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Good Story...
Teri, This is a very interesting and truthful quote. I appreciate your father's words of wisdom. I find that forgiving someone isn't about setting the other person free, but allowing myself to be free. Cheers
Wow....
"forgiving someone isn't about setting the other person free, but allowing myself to be free" ........what a wonderful way to put that! So, glad you are reading and leaving me words of wisdom too!
Hugs! Teri
"When everything is said and done, be sure more is done than said."
I BELIEVE!!!!
Terry, you got it girl!!! I totally believe in this...I'm a big Laws of Attraction supporter! In other words, "You are what you think" So think good things people, believe in yourself, reach for your dreams and what you do....always move forward! Thank you Terry.....you're always so inspiring!!!
You and I would
get along for sure....I love the word MINDFULNESS...and try to practice being and becoming MINDFUL in all I do.
I am mindful of the choices I make. I am mindful of the friends I keep. I am mindful of the hours spent. These are the words I play over and over in my mind.
Big hugs and I do hope we can meet when you are over this way.
Teri
Wow... Terri, this really
Wow... Terri, this really hits home for me. There's a term used nowadays called "haterism". And with the many blessings I have received since 2006, people that I thought were my friends began to talk "ill" about me. It hurts very much, but looking for the silver lining, I take it as a compliment. Thank you for sharing this poem and the wise words of your father. Have a great week!
Mona Liza "MO" Reyes
www.goteammo.com
Jealousy is the meanest of
emotions. People always see the OUTSIDE and never go within...They do not see the struggle, the journey, the effort. Yet they are quick to want to reap the benefits of someone else's work.
I know exactly what you are saying here because of my work, because of my looks, because of my life. When I was in the music business the plasticity of people was rampant. I would have to be reminded over and over....people are not like me. And like you, it hurt. Don't ever lose your "realness." Be mindful it could be stolen.
As for Daddy? He lives and breathes every day through me. I love you MO!
have a wonderful week, my friend.
Teri