HELP!!!!!!!!!! is it Jealousy?
How do you deal with poeple that talk sh.. behind your back? Always knocking your ways of life, being healthy, watching your diet, exercise, on and on. People that try to make others think your not good your ways are not good.
I have a situation at work with a very large individaul he's about 120 lbs to heavy, he's short, tummy hanging down to his knees, his legs are caving in from the load it needs to carry all day long. He never comes directly to me he just likes to go around bad mouthing everyone. It's a very bad habit most of the time I just don't pay attention to it. I have my goals, my life, my family to take care of but sometimes I tell you I just want to knock him to the ground. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Help!!!! Is it jealousy??
Hey there, Johnny
Just ignore him, and carry on being yourself. Who you are, and how you carry yourself will always win in the end. How you do your job, how you maintain your life, your self image and your family, will always be the most important, and come very strongly to the fore. I know that sometimes it is the hardest to not really deck someone when they are bad mouthing you, but if if you do, you will be lowering yourself to their level and that is definately not what you want to do. You are above that, and a much better person. Remember that they probably are feeling very bad about themselves, and usually verbal or physical bullies have a very low self image, and more than likely no self confidence in themselves or their looks! The only way that they can make themselves feel better is by making others look bad, but unfortunately they do not realise that they are actually damaging themselves by doing so.
Keep strong, and keep the faith.
Ready, aim ...
Fire! Duuuude, slap him on the forehead with a greasy twinkie! LOL Well no. That could be categorized as violence. Scratch that.
What you need to do is continue being productive in the workplace and shine wherever you go. Be helpful to the needs of the people around you. Yes, even belly boy. When you smile, you radiate peace, confidence and positivity that even the most jealous of people can not stand! He'll eventually give in and those that he runs to with gossip will shun him and tell him to join a gym. And of course that's where you would come in! ;)
We will all deal with jealous people in our lives. It's how you deal with them that separates you from the pack.
:)
" Walking is just a segment of falls prevented each time by your feet "
Read it and think about it
Usually I don't reply to the blogs because I think I don't have anything interesting to say, but in this case I think it's a little bit different. I had the same situation, but not because my routine or my life, it was another kind of problem, and he was a normal guy as I am, but he made me lose my patience and we had a hard fight........ It was some years ago and I still regret about it. Never and I want to be clear at this point, never use the violence if you can avoid it. Melinda has all the reason, take it easy, he can not hurt you, the people who care about you won't chage their mind even if this person talks shit about you and if someone does, he/she doesn't know you, so you don't have to care about him/her.
I hope this help you. Good luck!!!
Ignore him!
Smile and just know that it doesn't matter what he says or does, you are better than that.
It's total jealousy, so just be thankful that you are who you are. Don't EVER show that it bothers you in any way, that will only satisfy him. Make it so it truly does not bother you.